I use oil too, it does WONDERS. It makes them go away over night! Or at least in my case. I don't get why they would yell at you actually....I mean, a family member just wanted to help. I don't get why they would yell at you for taking something that someone gave you. Wouldn't it be rude if you just pushed it aside and said, "Nah, sorry. I can't take it. I already have something for my pimples." But they paid money to buy it. Iwould find it rude and hurtful, actually.