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Because I sure don't

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tsunamininja5

"What has she even done to you?"

 

Hm. 

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What has she done to you?

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tsunamininja5

That's the thing about us jealous women

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dragonheart5600

Just start by saying to yourself “I forgive them” and keep them in yours prayers (if you have a religion. If not, just wish them well) soon, it will be easier until you forgive them. 

 

Best advice I got.

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brownlynx107

Haha nope I keep grudges from third grade.

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catamber1354

I don't know. I just really suck at staying mad at people.

 

Well... except for this one dude that said my opinion didn't matter because I'm female. I still wish I could go back in time and punch him or something. I still hate him.

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brownlynx107

I think I might've connected the dots. 

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wolfdance572

All you have to do is accept their apology (if the gave one...) and forgive them. Trust me I have had to do it a lot!

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tsunamininja5

What about if they refuse to apologize

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dragonvampire976

then sock them in the face

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tsunamininja5

....I'm not allowed to do that...

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dragonvampire976

and laugh at them as they bleed on the ground

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dragonvampire976

then punch them in private

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dragonvampire976

incoming

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tsunamininja5

I asked how to forgive, not how to get revenge. And the whole reason we don't get along is because we got in a fight, so no, I'm not fighting her. I'm not allowed to. Martial artist thing.

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dragondolphin2613

@Samurai

 

I agree with your morals, if a fight caused it, another won't help it. Is that your TKD School's code? Mine includes that.

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dragonvampire976

Yeah, but you can forgive her after you get revenge. It's not fighting if she can't fight back, go for the neck first.

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wolfdance572

OMG don't fight that'll make it worse just forgive them anyway. don't hold a grudge. Grudges only hurt you, they don't do anything to the other person

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tsunamininja5

@Everyone who actually offered relevant advice

Thank you. I don't feel that much better, but I didn't explain the situation hardly at all, so what did I expect? But thank you for what advice you were able to offer; as jealous as I am of this little . . . hm . . . I will try to take your advice.

 

@Everyone who keeps posting violent things

Stop.

 

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wolfdance572

you are very welcome! :)

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brownlynx107

Jealousy is hard. Focus on how you guys differ. You're lucky in ways she isn't, but I know it's hard to see that. I think I know what's going on, but I've been lucky with this kind of thing, so my advice might not be the most helpful. 

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tsunamininja5

Probably what I hate the most is how everything I do, she does it better.

 

I was finally starting to get decent at spinning kicks, and this little .............. goes and

 

hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

 

Actually no.

 

That's not what I hate the most.

 

I hate how it's always HER who gets to demonstrate something, how it's always all about her, how it's always "WHO WANTS TO SEE HOW MANY DOUBLE ROUNDS MISS PERFECT CAN DO" and never anyone else. It's all about her sparring matches, never anyone else's.

 

Way to include everyone.

 

Way to empower your members.

 

Way. To. Go.

 

 

Has she worked to deserve the respect she gets? Yes. Does that mean she should be WORSHIPPED? No.

 

 

Also, something I would like to point out:

Her: -does 32 double rounds-

"YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY"

 

I did 40. And I can do MORE than 40. But did anyone care that I did 40? No.

 

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liondragon3229

First of all, congrats on your 40 rounds. I would suggest, go and tell whoever is always putting her for demonstrations that everyone has a right to demonstrate. Other then that, I don’t know.

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I always find that praying helps, and venting. Vent your frustrations like helium into a balloon and then let them go like a balloon flying into the sky. And you could also try telling her how you feel, using "I" messages.

 

EX: Instead of "You always [Fill in the blank]," say "I feel frustrated because (like in this case) I never get any recognition for the hard work I do." That usually goes over better. Staying calm in that kind of discussion helps, too. Unless she thinks you're a narcissist, then just don't talk to her about it, that'll make it worse.

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I am horrible at it. I don't apoligize really becuase it embarresses me.....

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First off, I would like to say that while I do not practice a martial art of any kind, I think I kind of know what you're feeling. (If this is wrong, disregard this, please)

 

So a few years ago, there was this girl in my class who happened to be a fantastic drawer. People gushed over her work, the school constantly hung it up on display, and she even won an award for it and got an article written about her in the local newspaper.

Meanwhile, I was just sort of standing on the sidelines. I didn't feel like drawing anymore, even though I've wanted to draw and become an artist since I was five. I just couldn't stop thinking about how this girl was the one to get all the compliments and the encouragement and all while I was placed to the side, as if what I was doing wasn't just as good as what she was doing.

 

I was jealous, and the jealousy consumed me. 

 

It's like a slow-spreading poison if you don't make an effort to stop it, and that leads to stuff like lashing out at others. The thing is, jealousy is something that comes from us, as in, our own selves. It comes from out bitterness, our sense of worthlessness, our being not good enough and of having no value...

 

So we compare ourselves. We look at our rivals and we see every little thing they do worse than us, then we wonder, Why isn't it me? We get jealous.

 

Do you remember when you first started taekwondo? I think I do, because every single post you made was about how AMAZING it was and how GREAT it was to practice. I remember how passionate you were, so much that I think at one point, you said that you wouldn't post here for a while because you wanted to spend more time training. You were happy.

 

Then (I can't recall if this is right) you posted a thread one day about how you had to go to a new dojang, with a new instructor and new people, and you were upset. There are more posts that seem bitter, angry, depressed, or aggravated whenever taekwondo is mentioned. 

 

I don't think it's that you've lost your passion. I think you still love taekwondo for what it is: a difficult but incredible and exhilarating form of martial arts.

 

However, I think that your passion for it has become muted by anger and jealousy.

It's like how I never lost my love for drawing, even as I saw the people crowding around her. Even when I saw the principal personally congratulating her on her work. Even as I watched the adults interviewing her and taking her picture for the local newspaper. 

 

Why didn't I lose it? I could have, and I think that I WOULD have lost it, if I had continued doing things the way I did. I thought so many horrible thoughts about her. I didn't want her to be good at what she was doing, because I thought that I was better.

 

Samurai, I don't know what it was that happened between you and this girl, but whatever it is, I think that maybe you should stop focusing on forgiving her, and focus on forgiving yourself first. Forgive yourself because you've been through a lot, and dealing with jealousy is not easy. Forgive yourself so you can reclaim the passion and love you had for taekwondo when you first started. Focus on how GREAT it feels to be DOING it, and not on how other people worship this girl.

 

I don't know if this helped, or if I'm even right about how you feel. (Please disregard this post if it's wrong) 

Still, I know that I've continued drawing, and that I haven't stopped yet. I've even come to appreciate my former rival's artwork.

 

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Thanks. :)

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  For me it depends on what they did, but I usually don't talk to them for a while to let things cool off then I go back and forgive them because usually you have enough time to think about what all happened and how to address it.

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