Okie, male pronouns then!
I feel ya on the family thing :'D You're lucky to at least have them accept you being "bi". Are you allowed to cut your hair? Maybe if you get a short haircut it'll be easier to adopt a more masculine appearance :>
My parents are super strict on the gender and sexuality thing, so I don't see a possibly way to come out either way :,) While I identify as agender, as my signature reads, I consider my sexuality as heteroflexible for lack of a better term (cause I have a very femenine appearance, you'd never guess I don't consider myself female). Skirts and long hair everyday aren't really my thing, but I'm not allowed to wear anything else :,v
Changing topic and answering your question, I do really love most types of music!
I'm really into this thing called Vocaloid music (you should check it out :P), since there's songs of all types and styles. I prefer lively songs which tell stories or express feelings, though mostly the first. Every once in a while I'll listen to a slower song but most of my faves are loud and fast :0
I often put lyrics from Kagerou Project songs in my sig (it's a series of Vocaloid songs that tell an interesting story about teens, I can tell you more if ya want ;D), with the song name underneath, so if you're curious you can check them out lol.
And you, what kinda music do you like? Any recommendations?