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wolfguard127

exactly the title ill be responding and reading all the comments cause im actually wanting to be in a relatioship but not sure what the right age is

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not until like halfway through high school and even then it shouldn't be a huge thing 

 

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depends on who u r

like, if you don't feel like ur ready, take that as a sign that ur definitely not ready

if u do think you're ready, go for it. give it a shot, right? 

but i mean, just my personal opinion that you shouldn't date until at least teenage years,, 

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Whenever you're mature enough. It's different for everyone, and I know some people don't even date until their late teens or twenties because they don't have the correct mindset.

 

Although, I'd say 13 at the least. Most of the time, but not all the time, relationships will fall apart quickly because of the awkwardness, drama, and immaturity. I've seen middle school retationships like that fall apart time and time again... Some people can date before then, but most can't. 

 

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I'd say seventeen and if you want to completly avoid the drama than eighteen. 

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^I'm with Key. I'd say that you can know each other better, but dating should be until at least your late teens, early twenties. But nothing's stopping you from knowing each other without dating.

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I would say you shouldn't date until after high school, but if you want to date during that time, then I'd say not until junior year. It gives you time to experiment a little before the big senior year, the last year you're at the school. 

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dating normally comes after friendship - to build a strong friendship, you'd need a couple years or months. i'd say fifteen or sixteen, when you're mature enough to handle it. these are also the times when relationships tend to last - friendship or otherwise.

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I say when one's grammar is well enough to write the Valentine's Day stuff and make it not-as-cheesy.

 

...Okay, just kidding just kidding. I'd say about college-age, because those usually come after friendships.

 

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I'd say highschool. I dated two girls in middle school and neither worked out at all. I got with my current gf last year, we just celebrated our 1 year anniversary in December. But I would say you have to have a very strong connection for that to work out, so a good friendship beforehand and a good amount of maturity from both people helps as well. I wouldn't reccomend looking for a relationship, but if you end up with someone you really connect with than its good and go for it. 

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After middle school. Many schools require you (I actually think it’s a federal mandate in the US) to take health class at some point in middle school and again in high school, and the majority of them cover healthy relationships and warning signs for abuse. I know that stuff helped a bit with my first girlfriend— I can’t really get into that here— but yes, I think that most people should wait after middle school. 

 

Don’t date just because all your friends are. Don’t start a relationship with someone just because someone asks you. Don’t look for someone out of loneliness, because that’s not stable from the get go. Most middle schoolers don’t have the emotional maturity to maintain a relationship, and those that think they can rarely last more than a few weeks. I’ve seen it happen many times. 

 

Also make sure your parents are okay with it too, wasting all your energy sneaking around isn’t good, and they’ll notice sooner or later. 

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Personally, I've never been interested in dating anyone and I'm still not even though I'm in college now. I figured if God wants me to have that kind of relationship with someone it'll happen, whether I'm looking for it or not. And if God doesn't want me to be in that kind of relationship, that's fine, too. After all, some people never date or marry anyone.

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The right age really depends on the two people who are dating. It doens't just go for you. Dating to young isn't really a good thing. It's always best to wait because there are a lot of changes going on in your teenage life. 

You are still figuring out what to do with your life and who you truly want to be. Adding another person that you have to invest time and heart into isn't the smartest choice.

 

I'd wait until you are at least 18.I have yet to really date anyone and it's one of the smartest descions I have ever made.

It doesn't make you weird and it doesn't mean you are going to be alone forever. Trust me on that.

 

I'm nineteen and was about to start a relationship with someone I've fallen in love with for a whole year. We were best friends and had a ton in common. He expressed his feelings more early but he ended up not being the person I thought he was. 

I'd definetly suggest making sure to spend a lot of time getting to know the person. True natures can take time to be revealed. 

 

In the end it's really up to you. Just make sure both of you are mature enough to realize that you really will have a large impact on the other's feelings and it's a serious thing. 

 

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wolfguard127

thanks everyone so far i love reading what you're take on it is i might want to try at like 13 or 14 because 1. i grew up with siblings at least 4 years older then me so im 14 in maturity and thought and actions and 2. i want to be able to see what its about and try it out

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I'd agree with Talon, 15-16 at the earliest and then only if you are mature enough to handle it

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I say the end of high school and college.

 

Sorry, that is in my opinion. I DON'T WANT TO BE DATNG ANYTIIME SOON. YUCK

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To me, I don't want to date until I'm at least 16-17. It just feels wrong at such a young age. I'm 12 myself, going on 13, so... I mean, if you feel a younger age is a better time to start, go ahead! But that's just my opinion

 

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another reason why i say 13 to 14 is my sister just started dating at 19 and she said she wished sh started alot earlier

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It depends on who you are. 

 

Typically, females are ready earlier than males because we mature more quickly. However, that is not always the case as I am dating someone who is almost a full year younger than I am, and it hasn't taken away from our connection in the least. I see the fact that you are seeking out answers before making your decision a sign that you could be ready. And from the sounds of it, you aren't interested in dating just to be "cool." However, you know yourself better than I do.

 

Keep in mind, that sometimes your heart has different ideas than your brain. My mother started dating before her mom said she could. I thought the earliest I would ever date is now (halfway through 8th grade), but I've been in a relationship for 8 months. Chances are, if you really like someone, you aren't going to wait for a specific age. I didn't even really consider my maturity or his that much when I told him that I like him, and later asked if he was ready for us to become something.

 

It also depends on the intensity of the relationship. Some people seek a connection on a deeper level, others do not. Some don't seek it out, but find themselves in a deep relationship anyway. You might prefer to start out smaller, and that's okay. Typically you need to be more mature for deeper relationships, however a lot of the time, you don't consciously choose that either. It just sort of... happens.

 

 

In short, follow your heart. Analyzing everything isn't always the best way to go, because you will most likely not follow your plan. Hardly anyone does.

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To be honest, I'm what many would consider 'dating age'. I even have a best guy friend who I have a crush on... but I still have no interest in dating. I'm a freshman and my crush is a junior... I haven't been given a minimum age on dating, and I still don't really think about it. My dad started dating in eighth grade, and my mom started in tenth... and I think my mom only had maybe two boyfriends including my dad (she had a high school sweetheart and my dad and I know of zero others).

So to out it straight, if you actually feel like you generally want to date, talk to your parents. They may be able to help you sort it out some.

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